Becoming a Person of Influence

Influence is a powerful thing—often more powerful than we realize.

As a leader, I have the ability to point at something and people will look. I had used influence—without force, without commands—simply by existing in a position of leadership.

Influence doesn’t require control, authority, or even intention. It just happens.

So the real question isn’t whether we have influence.
The question is: what kind of influence are we becoming?


What Is Influence?

John Maxwell famously said, “Leadership is influence.”
Theologian W. M. Taylor described it this way: “Influence is the exhalation of character.”

In other words, influence flows naturally out of who we are.

Everyone has character. Some people are honest; others are deceitful. Some are dependable; others are unreliable. Some work hard; others cut corners. And whether we like it or not, our character is shaping the people around us—for good or for harm.

Scripture warns us plainly:

“Bad company corrupts good character.” — 1 Corinthians 15:33

But the opposite is also true. Good character influences good character. We rub off on one another.

And let’s be honest—the world right now is desperate for people of godly character. If followers of Jesus aren’t influencing culture with the ways of Christ, the culture will gladly fill that void itself.

Complaining won’t change the world. Elections won’t fix it. Court rulings won’t redeem hearts. Legislation can’t produce holiness.

Real change happens when followers of Jesus influence people toward Jesus—one life at a time.


“I’m Not Influential”… Or Are You?

A common response is, “I’m not a leader. I don’t have influence.”

That simply isn’t true.

Everyone leaves a legacy. You influence children, nieces and nephews, coworkers, teammates, neighbors, friends—sometimes without even knowing it. Someone is watching how you live.

Influence doesn’t mean manipulation or control. God doesn’t force us into obedience. He sets the example in Jesus and invites us into life with Him. Kingdom influence is about inspiration, modeling, and faithfulness—not coercion.

Parents understand this instinctively. You can control your kids when you’re in the room, but what happens when you aren’t there? If influence hasn’t taken root, control disappears.

The same is true for employers, teachers, coaches, and leaders of every kind. Control might create compliance for a moment—but only influence shapes hearts when no one is watching.


Salt, Light, and Responsibility

Jesus made our calling unmistakably clear:

“You are the salt of the earth… You are the light of the world.”
Matthew 5:13–16

Salt preserves. Light reveals. Both influence their environment simply by being present.

If we claim to follow Jesus but fail to influence the world toward Him, we’ve missed our calling.


Paul: A Man of Influence

In Galatians 1, we see the apostle Paul as a powerful example of godly influence:

“They only heard the report: ‘The man who formerly persecuted us is now preaching the faith he once tried to destroy.’ And they praised God because of me.”
Galatians 1:23–24

That last line matters: “They praised God because of me.”

Paul’s life pointed so clearly to Jesus that God received the glory.

How did Paul become that kind of person? Galatians 1 gives us three guiding principles.


1. Be a God-Pleaser, Not a People-Pleaser

Paul writes:

“If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ.”
Galatians 1:10

This is harder than it sounds.

We all want to be liked. We want approval from spouses, bosses, friends, church people—even strangers. But God is the only one who clearly tells us what He wants and gives us the power to live it out.

You can’t serve two masters (Matthew 6:24). Eventually, one voice will win.

Here’s the reality: who you aim to please will determine the depth and kind of influence you have.

If you live to please people, your influence will always be limited.
If you live to please God, your influence becomes God-sized.


2. Let God Set the Mission for Your Life

Paul makes it clear that his mission didn’t come from people—it came from Jesus:

“I received it by revelation from Jesus Christ.”
Galatians 1:12

Your life mission isn’t something you invent. It isn’t assigned by parents, pastors, spouses, or culture. Only God sets that mission.

That doesn’t mean others can’t help confirm it. In fact, God often uses mature believers to affirm what He’s already doing.

There are also two important tests:

  1. God’s mission will never contradict Scripture.
  2. God’s mission will be affirmed by godly leaders over time.

Paul knew exactly why he existed:

“God… was pleased to reveal his Son in me so that I might preach him among the Gentiles.”
Galatians 1:15–16

Distractions are everywhere. Hobbies, careers, ambitions—even good things—can quietly replace God’s mission if we aren’t careful.

God’s mission must remain first.


3. Stick With It for the Long Haul

Influence takes time.

Paul didn’t receive full recognition overnight. It took fourteen years of faithful ministry before the church fully affirmed his calling.

Credibility is built slowly. Trust is earned through consistency. There are no shortcuts.

I’ve learned this personally. My own calling unfolded through failure, waiting, training, humility, and time. I wasn’t ready when I wanted the microphone—but God was faithful to shape me before placing me.

If you approach God’s mission casually, the result will be shallow.
If you commit for the long haul, God will produce something enduring.


So What Kind of Influence Are You Becoming?

Like it or not, you are a role model to someone.

The real question is whether people will one day be able to say what they said about Paul:

“They praised God because of me.”

If that’s the influence you want to have:

  • Be a God-pleaser, not a people-pleaser
  • Let God define your mission
  • Commit to it for the long haul

That’s how ordinary people become people of eternal influence.

And if any of this stirred something in you—questions about faith, purpose, or next steps—don’t ignore it. God may be inviting you into something deeper.

Sometimes influence begins simply by saying yes.

Listen to the sermon “Being a Person of Influence” I preached at CenterPoint Church 6/8/2025

Just Ok Is Not Ok

This past year, I’ve gotten a kick out of the AT&T commercials. Now I’m not pro-AT&T but check out a compilation of their “just ok is not ok” commercials.


I think there are many of us out there that are “just ok” with our faith. Are you just “ok” with your faith? Do you feel close enough to God?  Just ok? I have been recently teaching a series to my youth at church about being all in for Jesus, instead of being almost for Jesus.

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“Let’s pee in the corner” …..and other misheard things in life.

A while back my Lead Pastor, Worship Pastor and I were talking about misheard Lyrics. As friends, we busted up laughing. There are so many songs out there that it is easy to mishear some, and when you do it can be funny.

So I want to share with you my a list of 10 misheard lyrics that I think are super funny!

  1. Starship – We Built This City
    Misheard lyrics: We built this city, We built this city on sausage rolls
    Actual lyrics: “We built this city, we built this city on rock an’ roll”
  2. Queen – We Will Rock You
    Misheard lyrics: “Kicking your cat all over the place”
    Actual lyrics: “Kicking your can all over the place.”
  3. Cutting Crew – I Just Died In Your Arms Tonight
    Misheard lyrics: “I just died in your barn tonight, mustard no mayonnaise instead”
    Actual lyrics: “I just died in your arms tonight, It must have been something you said”
  4. Bonnie Tyler – Total Eclipse of the Heart
    Misheard lyrics: “Nothing I can say, I’m totally blitzed by a fart”
    Actual lyrics: “Nothing I can say, A total eclipse of the heart”
  5. Journey – Don’t Stop Believin’
    Misheard lyrics: “Working hard to get my meal. Everybody wants a grill”
    Actual lyrics: “Working hard to get my fill. Everybody wants a thrill”
  6. Bon Jovi – Living On A Prayer
    Misheard lyrics: “It doesn’t make a difference if we’re naked or not”
    Actual lyrics: “It doesn’t make a difference if we make it or not”
  7. Elton John – Tiny Dancer
    Misheard lyrics: “Hold me closer, Tony Danza”
    Actual lyric: “Hold me closer, tiny dancer”
  8. OutKast – Hey Ya
    Misheard lyrics: “Shake it, shake it, shake it like a polar bear ninja”
    Actual lyrics: “Shake it, Shake it, Shake it like a Polaroid picture”
  9. Guns N Roses – Knocking on Heaven’s Door
    Misheard Lyrics: “Mama, put my gum on the ground, I can’t chew it anymore”
    Actual Lyrics: “Mama, put my guns in the ground, I can’t shoot them anymore”

And my number one is….

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Spider-Man: The Truth About Lies

There is a lot of buzz going on about Spider-Man lately. It brought in over $1 Billion in the box office, making it the third Marvel movie this year to do so. With this to say, the Marvel and Sony agreement have not been looking so good, and it appears that we might not see our friendly neighborhood Spidey in an MCU movie…at least anytime soon.

Bruce Campbell as Mysterio

Spider-Man: Far From Home was an awesome movie in my opinion! The acting was great, and Jake Gyllenhaal as Mysterio was a very good cast (Even though I had been hoping for Bruce Campbell as Mysterio for like 10 years)  Far From Home has been out of theaters for some time now and hitting DVD/Blu-Ray release at the end of this month. This post has some spoilers, so you are warned.

The controversy over the Sony-Marvel deal wasn’t the only thing with Spider-Man that gave us trust issues. This was a movie is packed with secrets. Peter struggles to keep his identity as Spider-Man a secret. Mysterio keeps his true powers and motives a secret. We discover a huge secret about Nick Fury in the end credits scene. It’s hard to find the truth in all of this.

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God of the Magic

Disney’s live-action Aladdin is due to hit video release here in September. While I have not seen it, I do know that I, as a child in the 90’s, loved the original animated movie, so I’m willing to give this a shot. If you have never seen either one of the Aladdin movies then I don’t know what you are doing with your life, because the animated is a movie classic that had some really great talent and takeaways. Anyways… I bring this up because I have been in a lot of conversations lately about prayer, and what it really means to pray to God. You may be asking yourself “John how does Aladdin have anything to do with prayer?” Allow me to explain. I believe how we view God, reflects how we interact with Him. I have a lot of analogies on how a lot of people view God, and one of them is the view of God as this all-powerful genie that is here to grant us wishes.

Aladdin: You’re a prisoner?
Genie: It’s all part and parcel, the whole genie gig.
[grows to a gigantic size]
Genie: Phenomenal cosmic powers!
[shrinks down inside the lamp]
Genie: Itty bitty living space!

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